Sunday, February 24, 2013

Beauty and Goodness


Beauty and Goodness.

The last two weeks have been busy.   It is my fault that it has been 15 days since our last post.  I apologize for my slowness in posting!  Here are a few happenings from the last few days.

Last weekend, Jen and I were able to share Marianist Mid-LIFE together with other moderators around the country.  Marianist Mid-LIFE is designed to bring moderators from the various Marianist LIFE (Living In Faith Experience) Programs together to share prayer and best practices (amongst other things). Before I forget, Marianist LIFE is a Province sponsored leadership retreat that attempts to form students from our Marianist schools and parishes in the Marianist charism.  It is a powerful program that provides an experience of community for our younger Marianists.  This retreat/conference brought teachers and youth ministers who work with the program together.  The time we were able to share with the other moderators was indeed a gift.  The whole fact that we were able to make the trip was a gift. 

During the conference/retreat, we were asked to consider the role that Marianist Lay Communities play in our lives.  After hearing our keynote speaker, Pati Kresensky, speak about the history of the Marianist Lay Communities, I couldn’t help but think how MLC’s, specifically Sobremesa, push me to overcome individualism in a very personal way.  I was reminded how Chaminade wanted to transform the society he lived in.  He did this by working in a grassroots way to offer formation for people from all kinds of backgrounds.

 The spirit of Chaminade has touched me deeply and has led me to Sobremesa.  Here I sit, over the table (an incorrect yet made-up translation of our community name), so to speak, acknowledging that this community is the stabilizing force in my life.  This stabilizing force is continually reminding me, through prayer and work, to accept and live the life placed before me.   This stabilizing force is pushing me to offer that formation.  Jen and I often wonder and debate how best to provide that Spirit of Chaminade (transformation and justice) for other young adults here in SA, TX.

Indeed the time was gift and too bad we couldn’t stay in California (we were just outside of San Francisco in a city called Burlingame) longer but it was time to come home and back to the craziness of this life here in SA, TX.

After returning from California, life has returned to business as usual.  Track and Field season opened up and that takes up a good amount of time.  Jen is fighting a sinus infection.  We have, though, experienced a rare thing these last couple of days, naps!  Thank God for naps.  They seem to come at the right time and for all kinds of reasons that I’m not about to explain, I’m glad they are rare occurrences.

What I’d like to make less of a rare occurrence is the fact that living life in the Sobremesa Community allows me to become more of the man I was created to be.  Thank you Sobremesa!  Living life in this community is constantly allowing me to see the giftedness around me.   Jen sent me a great Henri Nouwen quote that I’d like to share.  It goes like this, “We don't have to go far to find the treasure we are seeking. There is beauty and goodness right where we are. And only when we can see the beauty and goodness that are close by can we recognize beauty and goodness on our travels far and wide.

Beauty and goodness are all around us, do you have the vision to see it?  Thank God, in community, we can see that beauty and goodness together.  If you are interested in joining our community or would like to talk about Marianist Lay Communities (or community in general) in San Antonio, TX or beyond please email sobremesamlc@gmail.com.

   

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Staying Alive

Louie has been joking around and asking, "are we dying?" With one of three people out of community.... it could seem as though we are. This past Saturday we met with Bro. Mike (who is journeying with Sobremesa) and the answer was a resounding NO!!!
In fact, we've been soaking (Marianating haahahahahah) in the Spirit.

Our Marianist Action this past week:
-Toni Messina (National Coordinator of LIFE) stayed with us for a couple of days... bouncing ideas off of and engaging in thoughts aobut community life
- MLFI (Marianist Lay Formation Initiative) Retreat was in San Antonio bringing in :Lay Marianists from all of the county (including my good friends from Hawaii).
-The MLFI cohort came to lunch with us at Sobremesa. We had a chance to talk about what is going on in our community. Which was especially nice for me... I finally got a chance to share with people I have known for 5 plus years my life...
-Sobremesa has begun to (slowly and surely) grow. We are inviting others into a new mission and vision and people are saying YES!
-I was given an opportunity to stay and host at Tecaboca.
-next week Louie and I will be traveling to the Mid-LIFE meeting in Burlingame, CA to talk about LIFE (Living In Faith Experience).

Louie and I have been working through our new mission. It's funny that we can read about all of these stages of community and mission writing etc... but it is a different beast when you are living it. Every "ah ha" moment  makes us that much closer to understanding God's will and our choice to live in community that much more. This mission we're working on will truly be a "living" document... re-writing and reflecting on it often... making sure we are living it.

This is what we've got so far:

The Sobremesa Community of San Antonio, Texas, responding to signs of the times, seeks to bring committed people of faith together to seek God through the lens of Marianist spirituality and community.  Working to support our families, each other and the larger Marianist family, we intend to live a common life of individual and communal prayer through the spiritual development and Marianist formation of Young Adults.

Soaking in the Spirit... surrounded by other Lay and Vowed Marianists gets me excited... fired up if you will. I just don't want to loose the drive... the fire :) Chaminade wrote in a letter to Father Jean Joseph Chevaux dated November 10, 1831:
"Moderate your labors and your zeal and never use up all the strength you seem to have at your command. I know myself how difficult it is at times to hold one's energy in check, especially when there are pressing needs. Nevertheless, one can succeed, by ridding oneself of all idea of self alone and of seeking only to accomplish the will of God."